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When the Body Keeps Watch: Trauma, the Brain, and the Goodness of a God Who Heals

Trauma is a word we hear often today, but for many it is not just a word—it is a daily reality. Trauma touches our children, our families, our communities, and even generations. To understand how trauma works, it helps to look at how God designed our bodies and minds to respond to danger.

Deep in our brain lies a small almond-shaped structure called the amygdala. Its role is to act like an alarm system—scanning for danger and warning us when something feels unsafe. When the amygdala senses a threat, it alerts another part of the brain called the hypothalamus, which then sends signals to release chemicals like adrenaline and cortisol. These chemicals prepare our bodies for the “fight, flight, or freeze” response.

This is a gift from God. Without it, we would walk into dangerous situations unaware. But under normal circumstances, once the danger passes, the brain is designed to calm itself down. The body lowers stress hormones, our heart slows, and peace returns.

For those who have lived through acute trauma—such as a car accident, natural disaster, or violent event—this system can sometimes misfire. Long after the event is over, a sound, smell, or situation can trigger the brain to act as though the danger is happening all over again. This is often what doctors describe as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).There is also a newer term being used called complex trauma, which refers to repeated exposure to traumatic experiences over time. This could be children growing up in abusive homes, women experiencing ongoing domestic violence, or professionals like police officers, firefighters, military personnel, or dispatchers who constantly face high-stress, life-threatening situations. Instead of the body returning to peace, the brain lives in a constant state of heightened awareness. The amygdala stays “on,” and the person feels as though danger could strike at any moment. While this hypervigilance can be useful in certain jobs, it is not a healthy way to live. It keeps a person in survival mode, manipulating their environment—not to harm people, but to avoid confrontation, control surroundings, and always have an escape plan.

Modern psychology offers many therapies for trauma—things like EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing), CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), and somatic therapies (body-focused practices). While some report relief, these methods are largely subjective, difficult to replicate in scientific tests, and often focus on shifting attention rather than addressing truth. The Bible gives us a firmer foundation. God’s Word tells us that lasting change comes not by focusing inward or rehearsing our pain, but by renewing our minds with His truth and by making conscious, Spirit-led choices in how we respond. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. “Trauma wants to lock us in fear. God gives us power. Trauma drives us into self-protection. God fills us with love. Trauma makes us feel out of control. God, through His Spirit, gives us self-control.

I know what it feels like to live in a heightened state of awareness. For years, I walked into every room scanning for exits, preparing for conflict, and anticipating danger. It became second nature to manipulate my surroundings—not to deceive others, but to survive. I learned to manage conversations to avoid confrontation, to anticipate people’s reactions before they spoke, and to always have a backup plan. This way of living might have made me seem capable and strong on the outside, but inside it was exhausting. God did not design us to live as though the next disaster is always seconds away. He designed us for rest, peace, and trust in Him.

The amazing truth is that God has designed our brains with the ability to heal and rewire. Scientists call this neuroplasticity. As we create new habits, meditate on Scripture, pray, worship, and walk in fellowship with others, our brain literally makes new connections. In Christ, we are not stuck in an endless loop of fear.

Psalm 34:4 gives us a promise: “I sought the LORD, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears. “Healing comes as we: Recognize the trigger but choose not to let it define us. Turn to God’s Word to remind us of truth. Build habits of trust—through prayer, journaling, and surrounding ourselves with godly support. Lean into community—God often places others in our lives to walk with us in our healing.

If you or your family have walked through trauma, know this: trauma does not have the final word. The brain may send alarms, memories may resurface, and fears may rise—but in Christ we are not slaves to fear.

Romans 8:15 assures us, “For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, ‘Abba! Father!’ “Our Heavenly Father does not leave us to live in a perpetual state of fear. Through His Spirit, His Word, His people, and His healing design, we can live in peace, hope, and confidence that He is our protector and redeemer.

Trauma may have shaped my story, but it does not define my ending.

The cross does!

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There Is a Connectedness in All Things — How Our Little Acts of Faith Matter

2022 Egypt

In the vast, overwhelming scale of war, it’s easy to feel like our small efforts don’t matter. But Scripture tells a different story. God doesn’t measure impact by size. He multiplies loaves and fishes. He counts every tear. He uses mustard seeds to move mountains.

When we show up with compassion, obedience, and intercession—even in seemingly small ways—we are participating in something eternal. Nothing done in love, in faith, or in truth is ever wasted.

“And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.”
— Matthew 10:42 (ESV)

The God of the Old Testament didn’t act in isolation—He moved through generations, keeping His promises through chaos, war, and exile. He promised to make Abraham a great nation (Genesis 12:2–3), He delivered Israel through the Red Sea (Exodus 14), and He restored them after captivity (Ezra 1:1–4).

That same God moved through history again in 1948, restoring the modern nation of Israel after centuries of dispersion. His hand is always present, weaving redemption through destruction, rebuilding through ruins.

“Your faithfulness endures to all generations; you have established the earth, and it stands fast.”
— Psalm 119:90 (ESV)

Today, as we witness wars and rumors of wars, we can take heart that our actions—when aligned with His truth and character—are still part of that great redemptive thread.

We Are the Body of Christ — When One Hurts, We All Respond

“If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.”
— 1 Corinthians 12:26 (ESV)

Though we may live far from the frontlines, we are not spiritually disconnected. As the Body of Christ, when one part suffers—whether it be a Jewish family under attack, a Ukrainian child fleeing violence, or a widow trying to rebuild—we are called to respond with compassion, prayer, and practical love.

We are not called to fix everything. But we are called to do something.

Powerful Ways to Make a Difference

You may not be a soldier, policymaker, or humanitarian worker—but you can still be an agent of hope. Here are some Christ-honoring ways to make a real impact:

Pray with Purpose and Boldness

Set aside time to intercede for specific families, cities, or soldiers. Prayer is not passive—it is spiritual warfare and partnership with God’s will.

Support Biblically Sound Ministries Serving Israel and Victims of War

Partner with organizations that uphold biblical values, support the Jewish people, and provide trauma care, rescue, or resettlement help for war survivors.

 Welcome the Displaced with Compassion

If war-affected families have relocated to your area, befriend them. Invite them to church. Help them navigate life in a new land.

Teach the Next Generation to Be Peacemakers

Raise children and youth to understand the biblical history of Israel, the importance of justice, and how to stand for truth even when it’s unpopular.

“The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.”
— Exodus 14:14 (ESV)

Israel stood trapped between the Red Sea and Pharaoh’s army. It looked hopeless. But in that impossible moment, God opened a path no one could see. He is still that kind of God. We are not without hope, even in the midst of global chaos.

Your small obedience today—whether it’s a prayer, a phone call, a donation, or a conversation—is part of God’s unfolding plan to restore, redeem, and reveal Himself.

War wants to strip people of hope. But God uses people like you and me—people willing to show up in small, faithful ways—to push back the darkness.

He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. The same God who led Israel through waters and deserts still leads today. And if we remain obedient, humble, and willing, He will use our little to accomplish much.

“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
— Galatians 6:9 (ESV)

Let’s not give up. Let’s not give in. Let’s be faithful, even in the little things.

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Even If the Worst Happens — Trusting God in the Midst of War

2022 United Nations


When the World Shakes, Is God Still There?  
In a world trembling under the weight of bombs, broken homes, and lost lives, we may find ourselves asking, “Where is God?” This question is not new. It’s the same cry of the prophet Habakkuk, who looked around at violence, injustice, and terror and cried out to the Lord:

“O Lord, how long shall I cry for help, and you will not hear? Or cry to you ‘Violence!’ and you will not save?”
— Habakkuk 1:2 (ESV)

His cry could just as easily have come from the lips of a Ukrainian mother, a child in Gaza, or a soldier facing unspeakable choices.

Habakkuk’s complaint wasn’t met with condemnation. God didn’t silence his pain—He engaged it. We, too, are invited to bring our rawest questions to the Lord. Faith isn’t pretending things are okay. Faith is trusting that God remains good, even when our world is not.

“The righteous shall live by his faith.”
— Habakkuk 2:4b (ESV)

This verse, quoted later by Paul in Romans, anchors our hope in God’s character, not our circumstances.

God’s track record of restoration can give us hope today:

  • In Egypt, He heard the cries of His people and led them through the Red Sea to freedom (Exodus 14).
  • In exile, He promised to bring His people back from destruction (Isaiah 43:1–2).
  • After centuries, He fulfilled His promise by reestablishing the nation of Israel in 1948—proving His covenant is never forgotten (Isaiah 66:8).

These are not just ancient stories—they are testaments of God’s consistent nature.

“For I the Lord do not change; therefore you, O children of Jacob, are not consumed.”
— Malachi 3:6 (ESV)

He was faithful then. He is faithful now.

Even If the Worst Happens, We Can Rejoice

Habakkuk ends his book not with a resolution, but with a revolution of the heart:

“Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines… yet I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation.”
— Habakkuk 3:17–18 (ESV)

This isn’t a celebration of suffering. It’s an act of defiant trust. Even if we lose everything, we will still find hope in our Savior.

“God, the Lord, is my strength; he makes my feet like the deer’s; he makes me tread on my high places.”
— Habakkuk 3:19 (ESV)

What Can We Do in a Time of War?

You may feel powerless watching the news or scrolling through photos of destruction. But even the smallest acts matter. Here are ways you can bring hope:

  • Pray deeply and specifically for those caught in conflict.
  • Give generously to trusted organizations offering food, shelter, and trauma care.
  • Write or call government officials to advocate for humanitarian aid for those being persecuted.
  • Open your heart or your home to displaced families or refugees of persecuted peoples.
  • Support children affected by war through sponsorship or prayer.
  • Be present to someone who is grieving—even if you don’t have the perfect words.
  • Support troops and their families who are fighting for justice!

Remember: it is not always our big gestures that heal, but our small faithfulness that builds a path to restoration.

God does not ignore war. He enters it. He weeps over it. He redeems it. The cross is proof that He doesn’t save us from suffering—He saves us through it.

He is the same God who parted seas, who regathered scattered people, and who will one day wipe away every tear. Until then, may we be vessels of His compassion, carriers of His peace, and witnesses of His faithfulness.

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How We Got Here — Tracing the Roots of a Spiritual War


Map of the Arab empire. Credit: G. Devilder


We live in a world torn by war, fear, and misinformation. If we want to make a difference, we must go deeper than headlines and hashtags. We must understand who is involved, why they fight, and what drives their worldview. I am wanting to expand your thoughts on these two critical points: the historical and spiritual identity of Iranian and Palestinian groups, and the inner divide within Islam that fuels its self-destruction and global manipulation.

To understand what’s happening in Israel, Gaza, Iran, and beyond, we must look at the whole story—from the Bible, through history, to the present day. (Please understand this is a very simple review and only to get you to understand there is such a bigger picture to what is actually happening today.)

From the moment God chose Abraham (Genesis 12), there has been conflict between those who trust the promises of God and those who reject them. Abraham had two sons: Isaac, the child of promise, and Ishmael, born from human striving. The descendants of Ishmael, as God foretold, would live in tension with others:

“He shall dwell over against all his kinsmen.”
— Genesis 16:12 (ESV)

The Old Testament is filled with examples of enemies rising up against Israel—the Philistines in Gaza, the Edomites (descendants of Esau), and later Persia (modern-day Iran). Yet over and over, God remained faithful, rescuing His people—even when they had rebelled—because His covenant cannot be broken.

“I will remember my covenant with Jacob, and I will remember my covenant with Isaac and my covenant with Abraham, and I will remember the land.”
— Leviticus 26:42 (ESV)

As Israel is once again surrounded by enemies, and as false religions continue to gain ground across the world, Christians must be alert and anchored in truth.

God’s Word has already told us this would happen. The same God who parted the Red Sea, restored Israel after exile, and brought Jesus to redeem the world, will not abandon His people today.

“Yet I will rejoice in the LORD; I will take joy in the God of my salvation.”
— Habakkuk 3:18 (ESV)

We must speak the truth in love—without compromise.
We must pray for Muslims to know the real Jesus—without fear.
We must stand with Israel—not politically, but biblically—with eyes fixed on God’s eternal covenant.

There is a difference between offering compassion and being complicit.
There is a difference between peacemaking and pretending false religions are equal paths to God.

As this spiritual war unfolds, may we be like Habakkuk—honest in our questions, but unwavering in our trust.

“The LORD God is my strength; he makes my feet like the deer’s; he makes me tread on my high places.”
— Habakkuk 3:19 (ESV)

Who Are the Iranian and Palestinian Peoples Historically? Both groups trace their spiritual and ethnic roots back to the ancient Near East.

  • Iranians descend from the ancient Persians. In the Old Testament, Persia was both a tool of judgment and a vessel of restoration. King Cyrus of Persia famously allowed the Jews to return to Jerusalem and rebuild the Temple (Ezra 1:1-4).
  • Palestinians are not directly descended from a specific biblical nation but were connected to the ancient Philistines. The term “Palestine” was a Roman designation to erase the Jewish identity of the land of Israel after the Bar Kokhba revolt (135 AD).

While the Iranians (modern-day Persians) had moments of cooperation with Israel in the Old Testament, today both Iran and Palestinian leaders have become among the most vocal enemies of Israel’s existence.

Many assume Islam is as old as Judaism or Christianity. It is not.

Islam began in the 7th century AD, about 600 years after Jesus. Muhammad, its founder, claimed to receive revelations from an angel (identified as Gabriel) and began preaching in Mecca. These messages formed the Quran. He later fled to Medina and gained power militarily. He died and was buried there—and to this day, his corpse is revered in contrast to the resurrected Christ, who lives.

Unlike the God of the Bible, who invites relationship, love, and grace, Islam teaches a system of works, obedience, and fear, with no guarantee of salvation. Its concept of God (Allah) is unknowable, distant, and arbitrary.

“Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.”
—John 5:24 (ESV)

Shortly after Muhammad’s death, Islam split into two major sects:

  • Sunnis believed leadership should be selected by consensus (eventually choosing Abu Bakr).
  • Shias believed leadership should remain in Muhammad’s family, beginning with his cousin/son-in-law Ali.

This divide has caused centuries of violence:

  • Iran is Shia and funds Shia militias (like Hezbollah).
  • Saudi Arabia is Sunni and funds Sunni groups.

They hate each other almost as much as they hate Israel. Bombings, assassinations, and holy wars between these two groups continue to this day. It is a war for control disguised as religious purity.

“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.”
—James 3:16 (ESV)

You don’t have to be a theologian to feel the impact of these ideologies.

  • They influence college campuses, where pro-Hamas chants masquerade as justice.
  • They shape news narratives, where Israel is the villain for defending its people.
  • They affect legal systems, as radical Islamist groups push for Sharia-based laws in Western democracies.

The average person, especially those who are spiritually passive, becomes easily manipulated by half-truths and emotional arguments. Without knowledge of history and truth, we become blind pawns in a spiritual war.

“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.”
—Hosea 4:6 (ESV)

Islam is not confined to the Middle East. Through immigration, media, oil money, and cultural pressure, it has:

  • Expanded across Africa, aggressively converting and persecuting Christians.
  • Gained ground in India, where tensions with Hindus escalate.
  • Penetrated Europe and America, using freedom of speech and religion as tools to establish footholds.

While many Muslims live peacefully, radical elements are working strategically, generation by generation, to establish dominance.

“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.”
—Matthew 7:15 (ESV)

The god of Islam demands submission but offers no intimacy.

  • There is no assurance of salvation.
  • There is no Fatherhood of God.
  • There is no Savior who bears your sins.

Islam replaces grace with striving, the cross with conquest, and love with law.

Christianity says: It is finished. Islam says: Do more, be more, or burn.

“But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
—Romans 5:8 (ESV)

What Can We Do?

  • Pray for truth to be revealed and for Muslims to encounter Jesus through dreams, Scripture, and the testimony of believers.
  • Study the Word. If we don’t know what we believe, we will be manipulated by what we don’t understand.
  • Speak up when you see Israel slandered and lies spread.
  • Support ministries and missions reaching Muslim-majority nations.
  • Stay bold and clear about the gospel: Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life.

A fractured religion is at war with itself and with the world, but its greatest threat is how it deceives and dulls the minds of those not rooted in Christ.

The war is not just overland. It’s over souls.

Let us not be passive. Let us be rooted in truth, vigilant in prayer, and bold in faith.

“If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?”
—Psalm 11:3 (ESV)

We stand on the unshakable foundation of Jesus Christ. That is our hope in every storm, our light in every darkness, and our truth in every age.